All marriedcouples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of makinglove. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Good battleis healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle of equalpartnership.

Itmatters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.

A goodlistener is not someone with nothing to say. A good listener is a good talkerwith a sore throat.

Whenevertwo people meet there are really six people present. There is each man as he seeshimself, each man as the other sees him, and each man as he really is.

We cannot all be great but we can always attach ourselves to something that is great.

Anempty sack cannot stand up.

The oldbelieve everything, the middle-aged suspect everything, the young knoweverything.

The more estimable the offender, the greater the torment.

Happiness is the art of making a bouquet of those flowers within reach.

Since God made us to be originals, why stoop to be a copy?

We judge others by their behavior. We judge ourselves byour intentions.

A goodmanager doesn't try to eliminate conflict; he tries to keep it from wastingthe energies of his people. If you're the boss and your people fight youopenly when they think that you are wrong that's healthy.