Theultimate test of a relationship is to disagree but hold hands.

Reformers are those who educate people to appreciate the things they need.

You andyour spouse should consider the arguments you have, not as calamities in thehistory of your child’sdevelopment, but as opportunities for learning. Take the opportunity to teachyour children the art ofand value in negotiation, and to demonstrate you

Ittakes nine months to have a baby, no matter how many people you put on thejob.

Negotiatingmeans getting the best of your opponent.

There are questions of real power and then there arequestions of phony authority. You have to break through the phony authorityto begin to fight the real questions of power.

Almost all of our relationships begin and most of them continue as forms of mutual exploitation, a mental or physical barter, to be terminated when one or both parties run out of goods.

Onlywhen you can be extremely pliable and soft can you be extremely hard andstrong.

As longas you keep a person down, some part of you has to be down there to hold him down,so it means you cannot soar as you otherwise might.

One whodoes not look ahead remains behind.

A smallbenefit obtained is better than a great one in expectation.

Our distrust is very expensive.