Youdon't drown by falling in the water. You drown by staying there. Anonymous Agood deal is a state of mind.

Untrained intelligence is as much of use as a bottle without an opener.

To believein something, and not to live it, is dishonest.

It's notthe will to win, but the will to prepare to win that makes the difference.

Livingwith integrity means: not settling for less than what you know you deserve inyour relationships. Asking for what you want and need from others. Speakingyour truth, even though it might create conflict or tension. Behaving in waysthat are in harmony

A man of great common sense and good taste-meaning there a man without originality or moral courage.

Thenumber one goal in resolving a conflict is to make sure both sides maintaintheir self-esteem.

Thereare two sides to every question.

Onceyou consent to some concession, you can never cancel it and put things backthe way they are.

When makinga decision of minor importance, I have always found it advantageous toconsider all the pros and cons. In vital matters, however, such as the choiceof a mate or a profession, the decision should come from the unconscious,from somewhere within ou

Power is no blessing in itself, except when it is used toprotect the innocent.

Silence, along with modesty, is a great aid to conversation.