We own almostall our knowledge not to those who have agreed but to those who havediffered.

All marriedcouples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of makinglove. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Good battleis healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle of equalpartnership.

When angry, count to ten before you speak; if very angry ahundred.

Talkback to your internal critic. Train yourself to recognize and write downcritical thoughts as they go through your mind. Learn why these thoughts areuntrue and practice talking and writing back to them.

Twoprisoners whose cells adjoin communicate with each other by knocking on thewall. The wall is the thing which separates them but is also their means ofcommunication. It is the same with us and God. Every separation is a link.

There isnothing more likely to start disagreement among people or countries than anagreement.

When makinga decision of minor importance, I have always found it advantageous toconsider all the pros and cons. In vital matters, however, such as the choiceof a mate or a profession, the decision should come from the unconscious,from somewhere within ou

Inbusiness, you don't get what you deserve, you get what you negotiate.

The power to do good is also the power to do harm.

Firstkeep the peace within yourself, then you can alsobring peace to others.

Luck iswhat happens when preparation meets opportunity.

As soon as you trust yourself, you will know how to live.