The split in you is clear. There is a part of you that knows what it shoulddo, and a part that does what it feels like doing.

Theterm up has no meaning apart from the word down. The term fasthas no meaning apart from the term slow. In addition, such termshave no meaning even when used together, except when confined to a veryparticular situation... most of our language about the

Goodcommunication is as stimulating as black coffee, and just as hard to sleepafter.

Thedays are too short even for love; how can there be enough time for quarreling?

Undernormal conditions, most people tend to see what they want to see, hear what theywant to hear, and do what they want to do; in conflicts, their positionsbecome even more rigid and fixed.

Themore adaptability exists for a given kind of decision, the less risky it isto make plans for the future, and therefore the more likely it is that morepeople will make more plans in such areas.

Drown not thyself to save a drowning man

Nevermistake silence for agreement.

Theshallower the brook, the more it babbles.

Assumptionof cooperative goals leads to viewing the conflict as a common problem to besolved for mutual benefit.

Nogarden is without its weeds.

Fourthings come not back: the spoken word, the spent arrow, the past life, and theneglected opportunity.