Insteadof suppressing conflicts, specific channels could be created to make thisconflict explicit, and specific methods could be set up by which the conflictis resolved.

I have never been able to conceive how any rational beingcould propose happiness to himself from the exercise of power over others.

Agrievance is most poignant when almost redressed.

He whoangers you, conquers you.

Consistencyrequires you to be as ignorant today as you were a year ago.

He understands badly who listens badly.

He who hurriescannot walk with dignity.

A status symbol is an instrument you clash when you want someone to know you are there.

A quiettongue shows a wise head.

A large ocean liner was headed across the Atlantic fromPortsmouth to New York. As it neared its destination at night, a lookout onthe wing of the bridge reported, ‘Light, bearing on the starboardbow.’‘Is it steady or moving astern?’ the captain called out

Thereare no secrets. There is no mystery. There is only common sense.

Thenumber one goal in resolving a conflict is to make sure both sides maintaintheir self-esteem.