Sometimesyou have to be silent to be heard.

It isdifficult to negotiate where neither will trust.

Everyoneis kneaded out of the same dough but not baked in the same oven.

How should the lamb negotiate with the lion.

All the power that we exercise over others depends on thepower we exercise over ourselves.

Never[enter] into dispute or argument with another. I never yet saw an instance ofone of two disputants convincing the other by argument. I have seen many ontheir getting warm, becoming rude and shooting one another.

Themore adaptability exists for a given kind of decision, the less risky it isto make plans for the future, and therefore the more likely it is that morepeople will make more plans in such areas.

The possession of power over others in inherently destructiveboth to the possessor of the power and to those over whom it is exercised.

Love arrives on tiptoe and bangs the door when it leaves.

The exercise of power is determined by thousands ofinteractions between the world of the powerful and that of the powerless, allthe more so because these worlds are never divided by a sharp line: everyonehas a small part of himself in both.

As longas you keep a person down, some part of you has to be down there to hold himdown, so it means you cannot soar as you otherwise might.

Effectivecommunication is 20 percent what you know and 80 percent how you feel aboutwhat you know.