Allmarried couples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art ofmaking love. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Goodbattle is healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle ofequal partnership.

Do notfind fault, find a remedy.

Resolvingconflict is rarely about who is right. It is about acknowledgment andappreciation of differences.

You don'thave to worry about being bit if the dog doesn't have any teeth. Success hasmade failures of many men.

Do not despair, not even over the fact that you don't despair.

Conflictleads to less-than-adequate performance, resentments, and lack of motivation.

Enthusiasm is faith set on fire.

Livingwith integrity means: not settling for less than what you know you deserve inyour relationships. Asking for what you want and need from others. Speakingyour truth, even though it might create conflict or tension. Behaving in waysthat are in harmony

Freedom suppressed and again regained bites with keener fangs that freedom never endangered.

Between grief and nothing I will take Grief.

Gossip is that which no one claims to like-but everybody enjoys.

Nature gave women too much power; the law gives them too little.