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Somewherethere is a map of how it can be done.

It isthe acid test of nonviolence that in a nonviolent conflict there is no rancorleft behind, and in the end the enemies are converted into friends.

In aconflict, being willing to change allows you to move from a point of view toa viewing point a higher, moreexpansive place, from which you can see both sides.

If youare standing upright, don't worry if your shadow is crooked.

Gossip is that which no one claims to like-but everybody enjoys.

Speakwhen you are angry and you will make the best speech you will ever regret.

Power will intoxicate the best hearts, as wine thestrongest heads. No man is wise enough, nor good enough to be trusted withunlimited power.

We donot have to agree; we do need to understand.

As soon as you trust yourself, you will know how to live.

Usenon-verbal communication to SOFTEN the hard-line position of others: S =Smile, O = Open, Posture, F = Forward Lean, T = Touch, E = Eye Contact, N =Nod.

Ifthere is any great secret of success in life, it lies in the ability to putyourself in the other person’s place and to see things from his point of view as well as your own.