To know the pains of power, we must go to those who have it;to know its pleasures, we must go to those who are seeking it.

Washing one's hands of the conflict between the powerfuland the powerless means to side with the powerful, not to be neutral.

A matter that becomes clear ceases to concern us.

There is a sweet joy that comes to us after sorrow.

Goodcommunication is as stimulating as black coffee, and just as hard to sleepafter.

We mustbe part of the general staff at the inception, rather than the ambulancedrivers at the bitter end.

Nature hasgiven men one tongue and two ears, that we may hear twice as much as wespeak.

Sayingnothing... sometimes says the most.

Instinct is the nose of the mind.

In oneof our concert grand pianos, 243 taut strings exert a pull of 40,000 poundson an iron frame. It is proof that out of great tension may come great harmony.

Resolvingconflict is rarely about who is right. It is about acknowledgment andappreciation of differences.

Livingwith integrity means: not settling for less than what you know you deserve inyour relationships. Asking for what you want and need from others. Speakingyour truth, even though it might create conflict or tension. Behaving in waysthat are in harmony