Fortunatelypsychoanalysis is not the only way to resolve inner conflicts. Life itselfstill remains a very effective therapist.

One of the lessons of history is that nothing is often a good thing to do and alwaysa clever thing to say.

Usenon-verbal communication to SOFTEN the hard-line position of others: S =Smile, O = Open, Posture, F = Forward Lean, T = Touch, E = Eye Contact, N =Nod.

Personal responsibility is too fiscal accountability as lovemaking is to a gynaecological examination

Conflictinvolves incompatible behaviors rather than competitive goals.

They know enough who know how to learn.

Power corrupts. Absolute power is kind of neat.

You can't unscramble an egg.

Within-groupconflict is always personal and emotional even if it begins with impersonalissues.

To know the pains of power, we must go to those who have it;to know its pleasures, we must go to those who are seeking it.

Ourlives are not dependent on whether or not we have conflict. It is what we dowith conflict that makes the difference.

People whoare too concerned with how well they are doing will be less successful andfeel less competent than those who focus on the task itself... Somepsychologists call it a conflict between egoorientation, or between extrinsicand intrinsic motivation...