The ultimate measured a man is not where he stands in marents of comfort, but whre he stands at times of challenge & contraversy.

Whenconflict becomes a win-lose contest in our minds, we immediately try to win.

Talkback to your internal critic. Train yourself to recognize and write downcritical thoughts as they go through your mind. Learn why these thoughts areuntrue and practice talking and writing back to them.

A book is a mirror; if an ass peers into it, you can't expect an apostle to peer out.

Keepthings informal. Talking is the natural way to do business. Writing is greatfor keeping records and putting down details, but talk generates ideas. Greatthings come from our luncheon meetings which consist of a sandwich, a cup ofsoup, and a good idea

Arbitrary power is like most other things which are veryhard, very liable to be broken.

The more you seat in peace, the less you bleed in war

You gotto be very careful if you don't know where you're going, because you mightnot get there.

Science has promised us truth. It has never promised us either peace or happiness.

No man everdid a designed injury to another, but at the same time he did a greater tohimself .

Our patience will achieve more than our force.

Fortunatelypsychoanalysis is not the only way to resolve inner conflicts. Life itselfstill remains a very effective therapist.