All marriedcouples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of makinglove. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Good battleis healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle of equalpartnership.

Conflictleads to less-than-adequate performance, resentments, and lack of motivation.

What we seek we shall find, what we flee from flee from us.

What matter is not to add years to your life but to add life to your years.

Money is what things run into and people run out of

Truth is strengthened by observation and delay, falsehood by haste and uncertainity.

Pleasure is by no means an infallible critical guide, but it is the least fallible.

To beprepared is half the victory.

Resolvingconflict is rarely about who is right. It is about acknowledgment andappreciation of differences.
One ofthe best ways to persuade others is with your ears by listening to them.

Nostrength within, no respect without.

No matter how much cats fight, there always seem to be plenty of kittens.

A round egg can be made square according to how you cut it; words would be harsh according to how you speak them.