He who gainsa victory over other men is strong; but he who gains a victory over himselfis all powerful.

If you are patient in one moment of anger, you will escapea hundred days of sorrow.

Twoprisoners whose cells adjoin communicate with each other by knocking on thewall. The wall is the thing which separates them but is also their means ofcommunication. It is the same with us and God. Every separation is a link.

Conflictisn't negative, it just is.

All marriedcouples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of makinglove. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Good battleis healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle of equalpartnership.

Well-managed,cooperative conflict contributes to the productivity and innovativeness oforganizations and the competence and well-being of people.

Wordsare, of course, the most powerful drug used by mankind.

Don't wrestlea pig in a mud hole. You both get all dirty, and the pig enjoys it.

Beon a horse when you go in search of a better one.

There ward for always listening when you'd rather be talking is wisdom.

Nine times out of ten, we are disappointed in life because we don't ask enough of it.

If you ain'tnever pick up the sword, you ain't never have to worry about fallin' on it.