The numberone goal in resolving a conflict is to make sure both sides maintain theirself-esteem.

I hold it to be a proof of great prudence for men toabstain from threats and insulting words toward an enemy, for neither ...diminishes the strength of the enemy; but the one makes him more cautious,and the other increases his hatred of you and makes him

The true test of intelligence is not how much people know how to do, but how they behave when they don't know what to do.

Zeal is fit only for wise men but is found mostly infools.

The nice thing about meditation is it makes doing nothing quite respectable.

Every generation revolts against its fathers and makes friends with its grandfathers.

Men are cruel, but man is kind.

You can not help men permanantly by doing for them what they could do for themselves

Speech is of time; silence is of eternity.

Onlywhen all contribute their firewood can they build up a strong fire.

Maturityis the capacity to endure uncertainty.

It isdifficult to negotiate where neither will trust.