Whenconflict becomes a win-lose contest in our minds, we immediately try to win.

It isgreed to do all the talking but not to want to listen at all.

All marriedcouples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of makinglove. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Good battleis healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle of equalpartnership.

Adversity attracts the man of character. He seeks out the better joy, responsibility.

Thecourts of this country should not be the places where resolution of disputesbegins. They should be the places where the disputes end after alternativemethods of resolving disputes have been considered and tried.

It'sgood to shut up sometimes.

Folly is perennial and yet the human race has survived

You see what power is holding someone else's fear in your handand showing it to them!

To start blindly with a statement is a sign of arrogance and narrow-mindedness,and will lead to conflict. To start blindly with a question is a sign ofuncertainty and honesty, and will lead to wisdom.

Thosewho are at war with others are not at peace with themselves.

Let us nevernegotiate out of fear. But let us never fear to negotiate.

It's the repetition of affirmations that leads to belief. And once that beliefbecomes a deep conviction, things begin to happen.