Oppositesattract and then can't stand each other.

The desire for change is a sign of safety.

Talk back to your internal critic. Train yourself to recognize and write downcritical thoughts as they go through your mind. Learn why these thoughts areuntrue and practice talking and writing back to them.

Nevercut what you can untie.

Think big, believe big and act big for gaining victory over your difficulties.

When there is no enemy within, the enemies outside cannothurt you.

Wisdomis what you get for a lifetime of listening when you'd have preferred totalk.

Lower your voice and strengthen your argument.

Marriagemeans expectations and expectations mean conflict.

The property of power is to protect.

I'm nota combative person. My long experience has taught me to resolve conflict byraising the issues before I or others burn their boats.

Peoplewho are too concerned with how well they are doing will be less successfuland feel less competent than those who focus on the task itself... Somepsychologists call it a conflict between egoorientation,or between extrinsic and intrinsic motivation…