The first duty of love is to listen.

If you are standing upright, don't worry if your shadow is crooked.

Assumptionof cooperative goals leads to viewing the conflict as a common problem to besolved for mutual benefit.

Never trust the advice of a man in difficulties.

Welearn little from victory, much from defeat.

The spokenword belongs half to him who speaks, and half to him who listens.

Theloftier the building the deeper the foundation must be.

To live is, in itself, avalue judgement. To breathe is to judge.

You can not help men permanantly by doing for them what they could do for themselves

Talkingjaw-jaw is always better than war-war.

He approaches nearest to the gods who knows how to be silent, even though he is in the right.

Livingwith integrity means: not settling for less than what you know you deserve inyour relationships. Asking for what you want and need from others. Speakingyour truth, even though it might create conflict or tension. Behaving in waysthat are in harmony