When makinga decision of minor importance, I have always found it advantageous toconsider all the pros and cons. In vital matters, however, such as the choiceof a mate or a profession, the decision should come from the unconscious,from somewhere within ou

The difficultpart in an argument is not to defend one's opinion, but rather to know it.

To know the pains of power, we must go to those who haveit; to know its pleasures, we must go to those who are seeking it.

Conflictcan be seen as a gift of energy, in which neither sideloses and a new dance is created.

Supicion of one's own motives is especially necessary for the philanthropist and the executive.

Sometimeswe have the dream but we are not ourselves ready for the dream. We have togrow to meet it.

The laws of life are founded on necessity, its charms on the non-essentials.

Change meansmovement. Movement means friction. Only in the frictionless vacuum of anonexistent abstract world can movement or change occur without that abrasivefriction of conflict.

One ofthe lessons of history is that nothing is often a good thing to do and alwaysa clever thing to say.

You andyour spouse should consider the arguments you have, not as calamities in thehistory of your child’sdevelopment, but as opportunities for learning. Take the opportunity to teachyour children the art ofand value in negotiation, and to demonstrate you

Humor is the affectionate communication of insight.

Personal responsibility is too fiscal accountability as lovemaking is to a gynaecological examination