You andyour spouse should consider the arguments you have, not as calamities in thehistory of your child’sdevelopment, but as opportunities for learning. Take the opportunity to teachyour children the art ofand value in negotiation, and to demonstrate you

A miserand a liar bargain quickly.

Thewill to win is worthless if you do not have the will to prepare.
Beforeyou build a better mousetrap, make sure you have some mice out there.

Peopledo not seem to talk for the sake of expressing their opinions, but tomaintain an opinion for the sake of talking.

Example is better than following it.

Most people suspended their judgement till somebody else has expressed his own and then they respect it.

Peacecan not be kept by force. It can only be won, through understanding. Ourlonging for understandingis Eternal.

Grantgraciously what you cannot refuse safely and conciliate those you cannotconquer.

Whenever I hear anyone arguing for slavery, I feel a strong impulse to see it tried onhim personally.

Arise, awake and stop not till the goal is reached.

Sometimeswe have the dream but we are not ourselves ready for the dream. We have togrow to meet it.

Themost intense conflicts, if overcome, leave behind a sense of security andcalm that is not easily disturbed. It is just these intense conflicts andtheir conflagration which are needed to produce valuable and lasting results.