Livingwith integrity means: not settling for less than what you know you deserve inyour relationships. Asking for what you want and need from others. Speakingyour truth, even though it might create conflict or tension. Behaving in waysthat are in harmony

Lower your voice and strengthen your argument.

Embracingconflict can become a joy when we know that irritation and frustration canlead to growth and fascination.

Melancholy is the joy of being said.

There are questions of real power and then there arequestions of phony authority. You have to break through the phony authorityto begin to fight the real questions of power.

It isthrough cooperation, rather than conflict, that your greatest successes willbe derived.

Believing that soom good can be derived from every event is a better preposition than that everything happens for the best, which is assuredly does not.

Amarriage without conflicts is almost as inconceivable as a nation without crises.

Thetorment of human frustration, whatever its immediate cause,is the knowledge that the self is in prison, its vital force and ‘mangledmind’ leaking away in lonely, wasteful self-conflict.

I know youbelieve you understand what you think I said, but I'm not sure you realizethat what you heard isn't what I meant.

Truth is strengthened by observation and delay, falsehood by haste and uncertainity.

Ultimately, the only power to which man should aspire isthat which he exercises over himself.