All marriedcouples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of makinglove. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Good battleis healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle of equalpartnership.

Undernormal conditions, most people tend to see what they want to see, hear what theywant to hear, and do what they want to do; in conflicts, their positionsbecome even more rigid and fixed.

If you could kick the person in the pants responsible for most of your trouble, youwouldn't sit for a month.

Bestill when you have nothing to say; when genuine passion moves you, say whatyou've got to say, and say it hot.

I’mwilling for any solution religious, political. I’m not going to keepoffering to negotiate so much because they turn us down each time. Itindicates a weakness on our part.

Let usnever negotiate out of fear. But let us never fear to negotiate.

The wise man learns more from his enemies than the fool does from his friends.

Effectivecommunication is 20 percent what you know and 80 percent how you feel aboutwhat you know.

You gotto be very careful if you don't know where you're going, because you mightnot get there.

Thepeople to fear are not those who disagree with you, but those who disagreewith you and are too cowardly to let you know.

A wise man has great power, and a man of knowledgeincreases strength.

Everything is funny as long as it is happening to somebody else. -Will Rogers