Whenconflict becomes a

Whenconflict becomes a
Whenconflict becomes a win-lose contest in our minds, we immediately try to win.
  

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The aimof argument, or of discussion, should not be victory, but progress.
The desire for change is a sign of safety.
To startblindly with a statement is a sign of arrogance and narrow-mindedness, andwill lead to conflict. To start blindly with a question is a sign ofuncertainty and honesty, and will lead to wisdom.
Conflictis the gadfly of thought. It stirs us to observation and memory. Itinstigates to invention. It shocks us out of sheeplikepassivity, and sets us at noting and contriving.
Without trust, words become the hollow sound of a woodengong. With trust, words become life itself.
As we grow old...the beauty steals inwards.
You only have power over people so long as you don't takeeverything away from them. But when you've robbed a man of everything he's nolonger in your power he's free again.
COURAGE IS THE FLEEING FORWARD.
Keep things informal. Talking is the natural way to do business. Writing is greatfor keeping records and putting down details, but talk generates ideas. Greatthings come from our luncheon meetings which consist of a sandwich, a cup ofsoup, and a good idea
The highest pleasure to be got out of freedom, and having nothing to do, is labour
Let uswork without disputing. It is the only way to render life tolerable.
A large ocean liner was headed across the Atlantic fromPortsmouth to New York. As it neared its destination at night, a lookout onthe wing of the bridge reported, ‘Light, bearing on the starboardbow.’‘Is it steady or moving astern?’ the captain called out