Fortunatelypsychoanalysis is not the only way to resolve inner conflicts. Life itselfstill remains a very effective therapist.

It is in our idleness, in our dreams, that submerged truth sometimes comes to top.

The first duty of love is to listen.

I’mwilling for any solution religious, political. I’m not going to keepoffering to negotiate so much because they turn us down each time. Itindicates a weakness on our part.

He that is unkind to his own will not be kind to others.

Whenconflict becomes a win-lose contest in our minds, we immediately try to win.

We do not err because the truth is difficult to see. We err because this is more comfortable

Don'twrestle a pig in a mud hole. You both get all dirty, and the pig enjoys it.

Themost dramatic conflicts are perhaps, those that take place not between menbut between a man and himselfwhere the arena of conflict is a solitary mind.

Night is the blotting paper of many sorrows.

Almost all of our relationships begin and most of them continue as forms of mutual exploitation, a mental or physical barter, to be terminated when one or both parties run out of goods.

Knowingthat everything's futile but still fighting, still raging against the dying ofthe light that's what motivates me all the time ... If you hold that sense offutility in your head for too long, it can begin to eat into you. You canstill be aware of it