You're ina much better position to talk with people when they approach you than whenyou approach them.

Fourthings come not back: the spoken word, the spent arrow, the past life, and theneglected opportunity.

All marriedcouples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of makinglove. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Good battleis healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle of equalpartnership.

In oneof our concert grand pianos, 243 taut strings exert a pull of 40,000 poundson an iron frame. It is proof that out of great tension may come greatharmony.

The rulers must be watched, not the ruled.

Let uswork without disputing. It is the only way to render life tolerable.

Deep-seatedpreferences cannot be argued about.

One must be poor to know the luxury of giving.

Well-managed,cooperative conflict contributes to the productivity and innovativeness oforganizations and the competence and well-being of people.

There are always two forces warring against each other within us.

The art of writing is the art of restraint.

Don't throwout the baby with the bath water.