Whenyou plant lettuce, if it does not grow well, you don't blame the lettuce. Youlook for reasons it is not doing well. It may need fertilizer, or more water,or less sun. You never blame the lettuce. Yet if we have problems with ourfriends or our family,

Use softwords and hard arguments.

Luck never mad a mad man wise

Thefirst principle of contract negotiation is don'tremind them of what you did in the past; tell them what you're going to do inthe future.

Wenever have the time to do it right but always have time to do it over.

Neverdoubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed people can change theworld. Indeed, it's the only thing that ever has.

All is riddle, and the key to a riddle is another riddle.

Don'tcut off your nose to spite your face.

If you are patient in a moment of anger, you will escape a hundred days of sorrow.

Centralization as a system is inconsistent with a non-voilent structure of society.

It is no profit to have learned well, if you neglect to do well.

Few things help an individual more than to placeresponsibility upon him, and to let him know that you trust him.