Peoplewho are too concerned with how well they are doing will be less successfuland feel less competent than those who focus on the task itself... Somepsychologists call it a conflict between egoorientation,or between extrinsic and intrinsic motivation…

The past is always dogging our heals, striving ceaselessly to banish the present.

It'swhen you're safe at home that you wish you were having an adventure. When you'rehaving an adventure you wish you were safe at home.

Whenconflict becomes a win-lose contest in our minds, we immediately try to win.

Ashes fly back into the face of him who throws them.

Any man can make mistakes but only an idiot persists in his error.

Science has achieved more for the emancipation of masses than the wisdom of sages.

Change meansmovement. Movement means friction. Only in the frictionless vacuum of anonexistent abstract world can movement or change occur without that abrasivefriction of conflict.

Like aball batted back and forth, a human being is batted by two forces within.

Manyspeak much who cannot speak well.

Intelligence is not to make no mistakes, but quickly to see how to make them good.

Resolvingconflict is rarely about who is right. It is about acknowledgment andappreciation of differences.
One ofthe best ways to persuade others is with your ears by listening to them.