The mostintense conflicts, if overcome, leave behind a sense of security and calmthat is not easily disturbed. It is just these intense conflicts and theirconflagration which are needed to produce valuable and lasting results.

The first duty of love is to listen.

I hold it to be a proof of great prudence for men toabstain from threats and insulting words toward an enemy, for neither ...diminishes the strength of the enemy; but the one makes him more cautious,and the other increases his hatred of you and makes him

Cooperativeconflict builds people up, strengthens their relationships, and gets thingsdone.

You gotto be very careful if you don't know where you're going, because you mightnot get there.

Whenmen and women agree, it is only in their conclusions; their reasons arealways different.

No matter how good the idea of the other fellow may be, there is always a better one !

The most imaginative people are the most credulous, for to them everything is possible.

Out of the fullness of the heart the mouth speaks.

The most exquisite paradox… as soon as you give itall up, you can have it all. As long as you want power, you can't have it.The minute you don't want power, you'll have more than you ever dreamedpossible.

Since God made us to be originals, why stoop to be a copy?

So longas a man is angry he cannot be in the right.