People whoare too

People whoare too
People whoare too concerned with how well they are doing will be less successful andfeel less competent than those who focus on the task itself... Somepsychologists call it a conflict between egoorientation, or between extrinsicand intrinsic motivation...
  

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It ishard to change our point of view in a conflict. Most often, it is because weare not nearly as interested in resolving the conflict and possibly creatinga new ‘pearl’ as we are in being right.
Nothing so wonderfully concentrates the mind as theprospect of a hanging.
When the defects of others are percieved with so much clarity, it is because one possesses with oneself.
Don't wrestlea pig in a mud hole. You both get all dirty, and the pig enjoys it.
Hear me,my chiefs! I am tired. My heart is sick and sad. From where the sun nowstands, I will fight no more forever.
There is no passion in life as intense as the desire to change someone else's draft.
A good listener is not someone with nothing to say. A good listener is a good talkerwith a sore throat.
Accomplishmentof purpose is better than making a profit.
Sincerity is impossible, unless it pervades the whole being, and the pretence of it saps the very foundation of character
If you would know what nobody knows, read what everybody reads just after one year afterwards.
Distancedoesn't matter. It is only the first step that is difficult.
You grow up the day you have first real laugh - at yourself