Livingwith integrity means: not settling for less than what you know you deserve inyour relationships. Asking for what you want and need from others. Speakingyour truth, even though it might create conflict or tension. Behaving in waysthat are in harmony

Two prisonerswhose cells adjoin communicate with each other by knocking on the wall. Thewall is the thing which separates them but is also their means ofcommunication. It is the same with us and God. Every separation is a link.

Power takes as ingratitude the writhing of its victims.

A good listeneris not only popular everywhere, but after a while he gets to know something.

If pain could have cured us, we should have long ago been saved.

The civilisation of one epoch becomes the manure of the next.

Even a fish wouldn't get into trouble if it kept its mouth shut.

Insteadof suppressing conflicts, specific channels could be created to make thisconflict explicit, and specific methods could be set up by which the conflictis resolved.

True friendship comes when silence between two people is comfortable

It ishard to change our point of view in a conflict. Most often, it is because weare not nearly as interested in resolving the conflict and possibly creatinga new ‘pearl’ as we are in being right.

Our faults irritate us most when we see them in others.

Everyone speaks well of his heart, but no one dares to say it of his dead.