Man must not check reason by tradition, but must check tradition by reason.

Whenanger comes, wisdom goes.

Listening,not imitation, may be the sincerest form of flattery.

Wherethe tongue slips, it speaks the truth.

The numberone goal in resolving a conflict is to make sure both sides maintain theirself-esteem.

Ideal society is a drama enacted exclusively in the imagination

Livingwith integrity means: not settling for less than what you know you deserve inyour relationships. Asking for what you want and need from others. Speakingyour truth, even though it might create conflict or tension. Behaving in waysthat are in harmony

Few men of action have been able to make a graceful exit at the appropriate time.

You can't unscramble an egg.

I liketo listen. I have learned a great deal from listening carefully. Most peoplenever listen.

Beon a horse when you go in search of a better one.

A goodmanager doesn't try to eliminate conflict; he tries to keep it from wastingthe energies of his people. If you're the boss and your people fight youopenly when they think that you are wrong that's healthy.