What wesee depends mainly on what we look for.

Undernormal conditions, most people tend to see what they want to see, hear what theywant to hear, and do what they want to do; in conflicts, their positionsbecome even more rigid and fixed.

You andyour spouse should consider the arguments you have, not as calamities in thehistory of your child’sdevelopment, but as opportunities for learning. Take the opportunity to teachyour children the art ofand value in negotiation, and to demonstrate you

When aman says that he approves something in principle, it means he hasn't theslightest intention of putting it in practice.

Amarriage without conflicts is almost as inconceivable as a nation without crises.

The directuse of force is such a poor solution to any problem, it is generally employedonly by small children and large nations.

Aquarrel is like buttermilk: once it's out of the churn, the more you shake it,the more sour it grows.

I'm nota combative person. My long experience has taught me to resolve conflict byraising the issues before I or others burn their boats.

Neversay more than is necessary.

Anounce of mediation is worth a pound of arbitration and a ton of litigation!

It's better to light one candle than to curse the darkness.

A gem is not polished without rubbing, nor is a man perfected without trials.