Allmarried couples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art ofmaking love. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Goodbattle is healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle ofequal partnership.

Self-trust is the first secret of success.

Undernormal conditions, most people tend to see what they want to see, hear what theywant to hear, and do what they want to do; in conflicts, their positionsbecome even more rigid and fixed.

Conflict is neither good nor bad. Properly managed, it is absolutely vital.

Few things help an individual more than to placeresponsibility upon him, and to let him know that you trust him.

Could agreater miracle take place than for us to look through each other’seyes for an instant?

Listening,not imitation, may be the sincerest form of flattery.

Prejudice is a disease characterised by hardening of categories.

The good neighbour looks beyond the external accidents and discerns those inner qualities that make all men human, and therefore, brothers.

Makesure you leave some fat for the other side.

Words are like spears: Once they leave your lips they can never come back.

In loving, you lean on some one to hold him up.