If wemanage conflict constructively, we harness its energy for creativity and development.

When aman says that he approves something in principle, it means he hasn't theslightest intention of putting it in practice.

He that is unkind to his own will not be kind to others.

The last function of reason is to recognize that there is an infinity of things which surpass it.

Thecorrect strategy for Americans negotiating with Japanese or other foreignclients is a Japanese strategy:ask questions. When you think you understand, ask more questions. Carefullyfeel for pressure points.If an impasse is reached, don't pressure. Sugges

Whenevertwo good people argue over principles, they are both right.

Embracingconflict can become a joy when we know that irritation and frustration canlead to growth and fascination.

Ifyou are leaning over to starboard to balance the boat against the other guy'spropensity to lean too far to port, both of you are about to get wet.

Suffering is one very long moment. We cannot divide it by seasons. WE can only record its moods and chronicle their return.

Untrained intelligence is as much of use as a bottle without an opener.

Trust only movement. Life happens at the level of events, notof words. Trust movement.

Power takes as ingratitude the writhing of its victims.