Somewherethere is a map of how it can be done.

Change meansmovement. Movement means friction. Only in the frictionless vacuum of anonexistent abstract world can movement or change occur without that abrasivefriction of conflict.

Resolvingconflict is rarely about who is right. It is about acknowledgment andappreciation of differences.

To have a respect for ourselves guides our morals; to have a deference for others governs our manners.

The ultimate measured a man is not where he stands in marents of comfort, but whre he stands at times of challenge & contraversy.

Wisdom is what you get for a lifetime of listening when you'd have preferred totalk.

Allmarried couples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art ofmaking love. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Goodbattle is healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle ofequal partnership.

Nature arms each man with some faculty which enables himto do easily some feat impossible to any other.

Thefirst principle of contract negotiation is don'tremind them of what you did in the past; tell them what you're going to do inthe future.

If an enemyis annoying you by playing well, consider adopting his strategy.

It'swhen you're safe at home that you wish you were having an adventure. When you'rehaving an adventure you wish you were safe at home.

Conflictcan be seen as a gift of energy, in which neither sideloses and a new dance is created.