The numberone goal in resolving a conflict is to make sure both sides maintain theirself-esteem.

Ignoring is not the same thing as being tolerant

The ability to laugh together is the essence of love.

Wherethe tongue slips, it speaks the truth.

Unselfishness is more paying,only people have not the patience to practice it.

Prepareby knowing your walk away [conditions] and by building the number ofvariables you can work with during the negotiation... you need to have a walkaway... a combination of price, terms, and deliverables that represents theleast you will accept. Witho

Failureto prepare is preparing to fail.

The art of writing is the art of restraint.

Allmarried couples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art ofmaking love. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Goodbattle is healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle ofequal partnership.

To understand everything is to forgive everything.

Suffering is one very long moment. We cannot divide it by seasons. WE can only record its moods and chronicle their return.

Trust begets trust and untrust begets untrust. It'snatural.