You andyour spouse should consider the arguments you have, not as calamities in thehistory of your child’sdevelopment, but as opportunities for learning. Take the opportunity to teachyour children the art ofand value in negotiation, and to demonstrate you

Never answer a letter while you are angry.

You make a mountain of a mole-hill.

Thereis no such thing as absolute value in this world. You can only estimate whata thing is worth to 'you.'

Girls .. . were allowed to play in the house . . . and boys were sent outdoors. . .Boys ran around in the yard with toy guns going kksshh-kksshh,fighting wars for made-up reasons and arguing about whowas dead, while girls stayed inside and played with dol

Don'thate, it's too big a burden to bear.

Humoris the affectionate communication of insight.

Amarriage without conflicts is almost as inconceivable as a nation without crises.

Throughconflict we get to unity.

Mensucceed when they realize that their failures are the preparation for theirvictories.

If speaking is silver, then listening is gold.

Thefreedom of the city is not negotiable. We cannot negotiate with those whosay, What’s mine is mine and what’s yours is negotiable.