Whenyou plant lettuce, if it does not grow well, you don't blame the lettuce. Youlook for reasons it is not doing well. It may need fertilizer, or more water,or less sun. You never blame the lettuce. Yet if we have problems with ourfriends or our family,

If you truly want honesty, don't ask questions you don't really want the answer to.

The mostdramatic conflicts are perhaps, those that take place not between men butbetween a man and himself where the arena of conflict is a solitary mind.

A good listener is not only popular everywhere, but after while he gets to know something.

When a man meets his mates society begins.

True miracle are created by men when they use the courage and intelligence God has given him

The first duty of love is to listen.

We knowwhat happens to people who stay in the middle of the road. They get run over.

Peaceis not the absence of conflict but the presence of creative alternatives forresponding to conflict alternatives to passive or aggressive responses,alternatives to violence.

He who asks a question is a fool for five minutes; he who does not ask a questionremains a fool forever.

Some people suffer in silence louder than others

Well done is better than well said.