When indoubt, ask. When not in doubt, ask. If you are not in doubt, you may bekidding yourself.

The mostintense conflicts, if overcome, leave behind a sense of security and calmthat is not easily disturbed. It is just these intense conflicts and theirconflagration which are needed to produce valuable and lasting results.

Donot wrong or hate your neighbor for it is not he that you wrong but yourself.

Let usnever negotiate out of fear. But let us never fear to negotiate.

As longas you keep a person down, some part of you has to be down there to hold him down,so it means you cannot soar as you otherwise might.

Reasonand emotion are not antagonists. What seems like a struggle between twoopposing ideas or values, one of which, automatic and unconscious, manifestsitself in the form of a feeling.

Trust no one unless you have eaten much salt with him.

Trust is difficult to define, but we know when it's presentand when it's not.

Power comes from sincere service

Deep-seatedpreferences cannot be argued about.

You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you willlive in torment if you don't trust enough.

The exercise of power is determined by thousands ofinteractions between the world of the powerful and that of the powerless, allthe more so because these worlds are never divided by a sharp line: everyonehas a small part of himself in both.