All the power that we exercise over others depends on thepower we exercise over ourselves.

We thought, because we had power, we had wisdom.

Whenelephants fight, it is the grass who suffers.

The deeper the waters are, the more still they run.

All marriedcouples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of makinglove. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Good battleis healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle of equalpartnership.

Concentrated power is not rendered harmless by the goodintentions of those who create it.

Communicationis a skill that you can learn. It's like riding a bicycle or typing. Ifyou're willing to work at it, you can rapidly improve the quality of everypart of your life.

Humour is a hole that lets the sawdust out of a stuffed shirt.

Use softwords and hard arguments.

The possession of power over others in inherently destructiveboth to the possessor of the power and to those over whom it is exercised.

It ishard to change our point of view in a conflict. Most often, it is because weare not nearly as interested in resolving the conflict and possibly creatinga new ‘pearl’ as we are in being right.

My Strength is made perfect in weakness