To ask advice is in nine cases out of ten tout for flattery.

Conflictlies at the core of innovation.

It seemed rather incongruous that in a society of super sophisticatedcommunication, we often suffer from a shortage of listeners.

Democracy is the art of disciplining onself, so that one need not be disciplined by others.

Fortunatelypsychoanalysis is not the only way to resolve inner conflicts. Life itselfstill remains a very effective therapist.

Do not despair, not even over the fact that you don't despair.

The possession of power over others in inherently destructiveboth to the possessor of the power and to those over whom it is exercised.

I liketo listen. I have learned a great deal from listening carefully. Most peoplenever listen.

The desire for change is a sign of safety.

If you truly want honesty, don't ask questions you don't really want the answer to.

Theproblem with communication is the illusion that is has occurred.

Livingwith integrity means: not settling for less than what you know you deserve inyour relationships. Asking for what you want and need from others. Speakingyour truth, even though it might create conflict or tension. Behaving in waysthat are in harmony