Tofight fear, act. To increase fear wait, put off, postpone.

Whenconflict becomes a win-lose contest in our minds, we immediately try to win.

Our distrust is very expensive.

It iswith our brothers and sisters that we learn to love, share, negotiate, startand end fights, hurt others, and save face. The basis of healthy (orunhealthy) connections in adulthood is cast during childhood.

All marriedcouples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of makinglove. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Good battleis healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle of equalpartnership.

Human beings are not perfectible. They are improvable.

A good listener is not only popular everywhere, but after while he gets to know something.

Youdon't run twenty-six miles at five minutes a mile on good looks and a secretrecipe.

The great essentials of happiness are: something to do,something to love and something to hope for.

Parents these days scarcely bring up children; they finance them.

Modesty is the clothing of talent.

I love power. But it is as an artist that I love it. Ilove it as a musician loves his violin, to draw out its sounds and chords andharmonies.