Allmarried couples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art ofmaking love. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Goodbattle is healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle ofequal partnership.

Truth is strengthened by observation and delay, falsehood by haste and uncertainity.

A goodmanager doesn't try to eliminate conflict; he tries to keep it from wastingthe energies of his people. If you're the boss and your people fight youopenly when they think that you are wrong that's healthy.

Reason is my philosophy, is only a harmony among irrational impulses.

Within-groupconflict is always personal and emotional even if it begins with impersonalissues.

Twobirds disputed about a kernel, when a third swooped down and carried it off.

Theloftier the building the deeper the foundation must be.

When you ask from a stranger that which is of interest only to yourself, always enclose a stamp

No man is the whole himself; his friends are the rest of him.

There are always two forces warring against each other within us.

To startblindly with a statement is a sign of arrogance and narrow-mindedness, andwill lead to conflict. To start blindly with a question is a sign ofuncertainty and honesty, and will lead to wisdom.

Sometimesone pays most for the things one gets for nothing.