Marriagemeans expectations and expectations mean conflict.

Remember not only to say the right thing in the right place, but far more difficultstill, to leave unsaid the wrong thing at the tempting moment.

Thetruth is that our finest moments are most likely to occur when we are feelingdeeply uncomfortable, unhappy, or unfulfilled. For it is only in suchmoments, propelled by our discomfort, that we are likely to step out of ourruts and start searching for di

The mostintense conflicts, if overcome, leave behind a sense of security and calmthat is not easily disturbed. It is just these intense conflicts and theirconflagration which are needed to produce valuable and lasting results.

Mensucceed when they realize that their failures are the preparation for theirvictories.

Do not wrong or hate your neighbor for it is not hethat you wrong but yourself.

There is sweet joy that comes to us that comes to us after sorrow.

There is no fate that cannot be surmounted by scorn.

It isnot necessary to understand things in order to argue about them.

Listening,not imitation, may be the sincerest form of flattery.

Much learning does not teach understanding.

Don'tbe afraid of opposition. Remember, a kite rises against, not with, the wind.