Allmarried couples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art ofmaking love. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Goodbattle is healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle ofequal partnership.

Whenyou plant lettuce, if it does not grow well, you don't blame the lettuce. Youlook for reasons it is not doing well. It may need fertilizer, or more water,or less sun. You never blame the lettuce. Yet if we have problems with ourfriends or our family,

The man with the new idea is a crank until the idea succeeds.

You can outdistance that which is running after you, but not what is running insideyou.

If you are patient in one moment of anger, you will escapea hundred days of sorrow.

Oursubconscious minds have no sense of humor, play no jokes, and cannot tell thedifference between reality and an imagined thought or image. What wecontinually think about eventually will manifest in our lives.

The more faithfully you listen to the voice withhin you, the batter you will hear what is sounding outside.And only he who listens can speak.

Tell meand I'll forget. Show me, and I may not remember. Involve me, and I'llunderstand.

The art of writing is the art of restraint.

Decisionis the spark that ignites action. Until a decision is made, nothinghappens.... Decision is the courageous facing of issues, knowing that if theyare not faced, problems will remain forever unanswered.

Power can be taken, but not given. The process of thetaking is empowerment in itself.

you cannot establish sound security on borrowed money