Whenconflict becomes a win-lose contest in our minds, we immediately try to win.

When makinga decision of minor importance, I have always found it advantageous toconsider all the pros and cons. In vital matters, however, such as the choiceof a mate or a profession, the decision should come from the unconscious,from somewhere within ou

I’mwilling for any solution religious, political. I’m not going to keepoffering to negotiate so much because they turn us down each time. Itindicates a weakness on our part.

If you arepatient in a moment of anger, you will escape a hundred days of sorrow.

Luck iswhat happens when preparation meets opportunity.

Nobody'sa natural. You work hard to get good and then work to get better. It's hardto stay on top.

There's no point in arguing with partisan supporters. Their views are their identity.Nothing you can tell the most phlegmatic follower.

Nevermiss a good chance to shut up.

The bird a nest, the spider a web, man friendship.

The Truly free man is one who know how to decline an invitation without giving an excuse.

All your fingernails grow with no convenient speed except broken one.

The leaders who work most effectively, it seems to me,never say ‘I.’ And that's not because they have trainedthemselves not to say ‘I.’ They don't think ‘I.’ Theythink ‘we’; they think ‘team.’ They understand theirjob to be to make the team function. They