Reasonand emotion are not antagonists. What seems like a struggle between twoopposing ideas or values, one of which, automatic and unconscious, manifestsitself in the form of a feeling.

Talk back to your internal critic. Train yourself to recognize and write downcritical thoughts as they go through your mind. Learn why these thoughts areuntrue and practice talking and writing back to them.

Usenon-verbal communication to SOFTEN the hard-line position of others: S =Smile, O = Open, Posture, F = Forward Lean, T = Touch, E = Eye Contact, N =Nod.

Far better to think historically, to remember the lessonsof the past. Thus, far better to conceive of power as consisting in part ofthe knowledge of when not to use all the power you have. Far better to be onewho knows that if you reserve the power not to

Talkingmuch about oneself may be a way of hiding oneself.

Nogarden is without its weeds.

It's not only later than you think- it's sooner than you suspect.

Patience is the art of hoping.

Miracles enables us to judge of doctrine and doctrine enable us to judge of miracles.

I have oftenregretted my speech, never my silence.

In themiddle of every difficulty lies opportunity.

Nothing astonishes men so much as common sense and plain dealing.