It ishard to change our point of view in a conflict. Most often, it is because weare not nearly as interested in resolving the conflict and possibly creatinga new ‘pearl’ as we are in being right.

You gotto be very careful if you don't know where you're going, because you mightnot get there.

Livingwith integrity means: not settling for less than what you know you deserve inyour relationships. Asking for what you want and need from others. Speakingyour truth, even though it might create conflict or tension. Behaving in waysthat are in harmony

Let us nevernegotiate out of fear. But let us never fear to negotiate.

Boredom is a vital problem for the moralist, since atleast half the sins of mankind are caused by the fear of it.

Ifthere is any great secret of success in life, it lies in the ability to putyourself in the other person’s place and to see things from his point of view as well as your own.

To rule is not so much a question of the heavy hand as the firm seat.

Wheneveryou're in conflict with someone, there is one factor that can make thedifference between damaging your relationship and deepening it. That factoris attitude.

Growth for the sake of growth is the ideology of cancer cell.

Prejudice is a disease characterised by hardening of categories.

No onewould talk much in society; if he knew how often he misunderstands others.

Be still when you have nothing to say; when genuine passion moves you, say whatyou've got to say, and say it hot.