All marriedcouples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of makinglove. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Good battleis healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle of equalpartnership.

The desire for change is a sign of safety.

Resolvingconflict is rarely about who is right. It is about acknowledgment andappreciation of differences.

A good listeneris not only popular everywhere, but after a while he gets to know something.

Aproblem is a chance for you to do your best.

The fibers of all things have their tension and are strainedlike the strings of an instrument.

Don't be took quick to belive anything you read.

Thepast is malleable and flexible, changing as our recollection interprets andre-explains what has happened.

The greatest humiliation in life is to work hard on something from which you expect great appreciation, and then fail to get.

Sometimesyou have to be silent to be heard.

The darkest hour has only 60 minutes

God made time, but man made haste.