Allmarried couples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art ofmaking love. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Goodbattle is healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle ofequal partnership.

It ishard to change our point of view in a conflict. Most often, it is because weare not nearly as interested in resolving the conflict and possibly creatinga new ‘pearl’ as we are in being right.

One of the function of intelligence is to take account of the dangers that come from trusting solely to the intelligence.

Reasonand emotion are not antagonists. What seems like a struggle between twoopposing ideas or values, one of which, automatic and unconscious, manifestsitself in the form of a feeling.

Creation is only the projection into form of that which already exists.

Wisdomis what you get for a lifetime of listening when you'd have preferred totalk.

The true test of intelligence is not how much people know how to do, but how they behave when they don't know what to do.

Nothingso completely baffles one who is full of trick and duplicity himself, thanstraightforward and simple integrity in another.

A man, when he burns, leaves only a handful of ashes. woman can hold him. the wind must blow him away.

The purpose of getting power is to be able to give itaway.

Takeyour life into your own hands, and what happens? A terrible thing, no one toblame.

Nevermistake silence for agreement.