Peoplewho are too concerned with how well they are doing will be less successfuland feel less competent than those who focus on the task itself... Somepsychologists call it a conflict between egoorientation,or between extrinsic and intrinsic motivation…

The power to do good is also the power to do harm.

Am Inot destroying my enemies when I make friends of them?

Trust exists; only lies are invented.

Conflictis the gadfly of thought. It stirs us to observation and memory. Itinstigates to invention. It shocks us out of sheeplikepassivity, and sets us at noting and contriving.

"Man wishes2fly like a bird,sing like cuckoo,dance like a peacock,swim like a fish,But Man dosnt wish2live like a man"

Twobirds disputed about a kernel, when a third swooped down and carried it off.

All the power that we exercise over others depends on thepower we exercise over ourselves.

The ability to laugh together is the essence of love.

A good listener is not someone with nothing to say. A good listener is a good talkerwith a sore throat.

If Igive you an idea, and you give me an idea, we will each have two ideas.

Wheneveryou're in conflict with someone, there is one factor that can make thedifference between damaging your relationship and deepening it. That factoris attitude.