People whoare too concerned with how well they are doing will be less successful andfeel less competent than those who focus on the task itself... Somepsychologists call it a conflict between egoorientation, or between extrinsicand intrinsic motivation...

The compromisewill always be more expensive than either of the suggestions it iscompromising.

Onemust talk little and listen much.

Silenceis argument carried out by other means.

It iswith our brothers and sisters that we learn to love, share, negotiate, startand end fights, hurt others, and save face. The basis of healthy (orunhealthy) connections in adulthood is cast during childhood.

Analysis kills spontaneity.The grain once ground to floor,springs and germinates no more.

Thereare no secrets. There is no mystery. There is only common sense.

Whodigs a pit for others will fall in themselves.

Contradictionshould awaken Attention, not Passion.

Thespirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak.

Don'tjudge a book by its cover.

Consistencyis the hobgoblin of little minds.