Supicion of one's own motives is especially necessary for the philanthropist and the executive.

Onehour of thoughtful solitude may nerve the heart for days of conflict girdingup its armor to meet the most insidious foe.

Resolvingconflict is rarely about who is right. It is about acknowledgment andappreciation of differences.

Insteadof suppressing conflicts, specific channels could be created to make thisconflict explicit, and specific methods could be set up by which the conflictis resolved.

Any general statement is like a cheque drawn on a bank. Its value depends on what is there to meet it.

To understand everything is to forgive everything.

The ability to laugh together is the essence of love.

Don'tclose the barn door after the horse runs away.

Whenyou plant lettuce, if it does not grow well, you don't blame the lettuce. Youlook for reasons it is not doing well. It may need fertilizer, or more water,or less sun. You never blame the lettuce. Yet if we have problems with ourfriends or our family,

Fromlittle acorns mighty oaks do grow.

Eyes are more accurate witness than ears

It's notthe will to win, but the will to prepare to win that makes the difference.